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Monday, December 19, 2011

Enter Our FREE Book Giveaway: From Incurable to Incredible by Tami Boehmer

From Incurable to Incredible

After Tami Boehmer was told by a doctor, “You could live two years or 20 years, but you’ll die from breast cancer,” she got angry.

“How does she know how long I have to live?” Tami asked herself before deciding to talk with other cancer survivors who didn’t accept doctors’ predictions – people who beat the odds. She was determined to find out how they did it so she could do it herself. And thus began Tami’s search for  the “miracle survivors” whose stories are now featured in her book, From Incurable to Incredible: Cancer Survivors Who Beat the Odds.

From Incurable to Incredible features 27 cancer survivors who were given a terminal diagnosis, but shocked everyone by thriving years past their prognoses.  These “miracle survivors” have different cancers and circumstances, but share two things: a poor prognosis and incredible drive to overcome it. The book contains stories of such amazing and inspiring people as Doug Ulman, three-time survivor and president and CEO of the Lance Armstrong Foundation, Paul Falk who became a personal guest of then Vice President George H.W. Bush decades after being diagnosed with acute leukemia at age 9. We also meet radio show host Brenda Michaels, who beat cancer three times and used alternative therapies, and Cathy Wolfe who insisted on having her baby even after receiving the diagnosis of ovarian cancer during her pregnancy – she and her now teenage son are now thriving.

If you’d like to try for a chance to win From Incurable to Incredible for yourself or a friend, here’s what you need to do: Leave a comment by 6pm on Monday, January 2, 2011 and tell us why you’d love to have this book! If you have a story to share, tell us about that too!

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Tami BoehmerAfter more than 20 years working in health care public relations, Tami Boehmer was thrust into the world as a patient. In February 2008, she was diagnosed with a stage IV breast cancer recurrence–months after celebrating her five-year, cancer-free anniversary. Unwilling to accept a grim prognosis, she decided to interview survivors nationwide who have lived far beyond what the medical establishment predicted. Tami compiled these amazing stories into her book, and shares them along with valuable information on healing the body, mind and spirit on her Web site and blog, Miracle Survivors. Tami lives with her husband Mike, daughter Chrissy and furry feline AJ in Cincinnati, Ohio. She divides her time between caring for her family, blogging, fulfilling speaking engagements, and serving as a board member for Pink Ribbon Girls, a support group for young breast cancer survivors.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Three Factors That Enable a Woman To Thrive

GUEST POST BY RHONDA SMITH OF BREAST CANCER PARTNER

It seems as though over the past few months a common theme I’ve heard from women is centered on the feeling that they’re Breast Cancer Partner Headerin ”transition.”  Honestly, I think the whole world is in transition right now.

The women I have encountered talk about discovering that they’ve reached a point in their lives where they recognize that the choices and decisions they made many years ago that led them to where they are today don’t seem to be working for them anymore and are feeling unfulfilled. They have a strong desire to create a different life for themselves.

I find that some are clear on how to go about making this change, some seem “stuck,” some don’t know how to move forward and some are fearful even about the thought of abandoning the life and career they have known up to this point to pursue their passion and true purpose, even though they may be undoubtedly unhappy with their current existence.

Whatever the case may be, I think that there is some sort of transitioning happening among women.  In my personal network I see women taking charge and making changes in their lives, careers, their consumerism, their investments, and their activism.

Breast Cancer Partner Header 2I am happy to say that through my own personal journey I have discovered what I believe is my passion and purpose in life – to educate, enlighten and empower not only breast cancer survivors, but women in general to become their own health and wellness advocate. This discovery was born out of my breast cancer experience and desire to make the necessary changes in my life to put my health and wellness first after realizing what a difference doing this has made in my vitality and overall quality of life.

I have since created a business, Breast Cancer Partner that focuses on breast cancer recovery through health and wellness and taking a more integrative approach to recovery. However, in the process of getting Breast Cancer Partner off the ground, I have realized that women in general can also greatly benefit from putting their health and wellness first, becoming their own health and wellness advocate, and adopting the Recover Restore Reenergize© Philosophy.

Through my work, I have also realized how much we as women give of ourselves every single day to love, take care of and nurture everything and everyone we’re responsible for in our lives, saving ourselves for last.  I recognize how exhausting that can be whether we acknowledge it or not.

Based on my observation, I believe that the three equal factors that enable a woman to “thrive” and live a life full of vitality with grace, elegance and energy is her ability to Recover, Restore and Reenergize herself and her life on an ongoing basis.

And really, it doesn’t matter if you’re a woman recovering from breast cancer, a woman who is enduring the challenges of everyday life, or a woman living out your passion and purpose in the world – all of us need to be more mindful about how we live, work and play everyday. Most important, we must be sure to schedule the time to nurture and love ourselves each and everyday, putting our health and wellness first. That’s the way we can Recover, Restore and Reenergize ourselves each and everyday and be a better, bolder, brighter transmitter of light, love and energy to the world!

Rhonda SmithRhonda M. Smith is the Founder of Breast Cancer Partner, an organization that focuses on breast cancer recovery through health and wellness and taking a more integrative and holistic approach to recovery. Breast Cancer Partner provides tools, resources and information to help breast cancer survivors (and their families) who are nearing the end of or have completed treatment, on their journey to recovery, and those who are now living cancer free.

Ultimately, Rhonda wants to create a world in which each and every breast cancer survivor lives a life that is full of vitality, cancer-free and without fear, so that recovery is a life-enhancing rather than a life-limiting event.

To see Rhonda’s Recover Restore Reenergize© T-shirt, visit the Breast Cancer Partner website here.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Transitioning After Treatment

What happens after treatment ends? After coping with the radiation side effects, the side effects of chemotherapy, the surgery, and so on. One woman in this video says it took the first year to get her body through treatment, and a second year to get her spirit through it. How has life after treatment been for you?

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Kimberly Fowler Beat Brain Cancer

Kimberly Fowler has forged her own path, completely recovering from severe accidents and beating inoperable brain cancer at age 24. She believes in herself and in her own power to a degree that is astounding. When she was diagnosed with cancer, she had few treatment options. While in the hospital, she got really clear on what was the right way for her to proceed and it led to a major life transition and many years of helping others. She continues to inspire so many.

Click here for the short video of Kimberly.

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Sunday, September 5, 2010

I’m Not Lance!

GUEST POST BY SCOTT P. ALCOTT

For my 40th birthday, I got stage four cancer. A small lump under my cheek turned out to be a rare, high-grade sarcoma. TheScott Alcott doctor said I would need immediate surgery and a year of heavy radiation and chemotherapy, assuming I made it that long. I was told to “make arrangements.”

The first copy of It’s Not About the Bike: My Journey Back to Life came from my neighbor, a retired surgeon. If you haven’t read it, that’s Lance Armstrong’s inspirational cancer book. A college friend sent me a second copy wrapped together with one of those yellow “Livestrong” bracelets that Lance’s cancer foundation sells to raise money. When you get cancer, you get a lot of Lance Armstrong stuff!

Lance’s book was immensely moving to me and his character and fighting spirit was inspiring. But could I measure up to him? He set the bar very high.  I knew I didn’t have Lance’s bravery, stamina, pain-tolerance, competitiveness, focus and physical gifts. I felt inadequate and ill-equipped for going into the same fight as him. Did people expect me to be that heroic, brave and committed? Is that why they gave me the book?

Because I’m not Lance, I entered his club with a negative outlook and the presumption of defeat. A regular person feels subordinate to the infamous and all-powerful cancer. I pretty much quit on myself. I wasn’t up for the drama. Fighting for a year with pills,  doses, appointments, injections, nausea, radiation sickness, baldness and toxicity…for a coin toss shot at surviving? I doubted I could do it mentally or physically. The disease I have hits less than one in a million. I felt beating it was like trying to out-run lightning. It felt predestined. Maybe Lance Armstrong could stare down such a mountain but I never did anything impossible before.

I’m in remission now. The disfiguring surgery and nearly a year of toxic chemo and radiation—that’s three rounds in the ring with the world’s meanest killer, and I am still standing. So are many of the brave people I met along the way in chemo and radiation rooms. Unlike Lance, no one is telling me I beat it yet. They scan me twice a year looking for tumors. Lance’s life story is like a Hollywood movie with a triumphant conclusion. But I know that all too often, it’s not such a happy ending. I hope I beat it. I sure did some hard things to get this far.

All of us with cancer are fighting our own dramatic and heroic battles. We’re hoping for our own come-from-behind victory like you see at the Tour de France—an against all odds type of thing. At 53 months, my battery of PET, CT, and MRI scans are just back—and all remains clear. When the report came back, I thought to myself, “Maybe I’m not Lance, but I can take a punch too.” Score one for the mortals!

As far as how I made it through the battle, I decided that depression, anxiety, and self-focus would defeat me. I elected to channel that energy instead into helping other patients and their supporters. I found there were many medical, technical, spiritual, alternative medicine, and celebrity survivor stories out in print and on the web. So I wrote a different book about what happens when regular people and their families find themselves in the very irregular situation that is cancer. It’s an experience and survival guide for the rest of us. Based on the letters and reviews I receive, I’m Not Lance! seems to help people around the world and it raises money for an excellent charity. Doing something positive with this negative experience helps me get through.

Scott Alcott is a husband, father, and Ewing’s Sarcoma survivor working in telecommunications. His first book, I’m Not Lance! A Cancer Experience and Survival Guide for Mere Mortals is getting rave reader and critical reviews; all proceeds are donated to the Liddy Shriver Sarcoma Initiative.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Moving Forward in the Face of Chronic Illness

GUEST POST BY JAMES JORDAN

I’ve seen and experienced a great deal of illness in my personal and professional life. I was chronically ill (Chronic Fatigue James Jordan for Jeans CreamSyndrome) for six years in the 1980s and after recovering my health, changed careers from lawyer to nutritionist. After I recovered my health I continued working as a lawyer but found myself advising many of my clients and colleagues on nutrition and health. I remember one day realizing that I was more inspired to teach people how to improve their health than practice law, which began a career transition that took several years.

The first thing I needed in my own healing was a motivation to get well. I saw the world as upside down and full of injustice and suffering. There was no reason to live but I didn’t want to die either so I sat out much of my 20’s. I had rejected spirituality and life beyond the senses. When I open up to a spiritual dimension of life the decisions I made pertaining to my health became better decisions and I gradually recovered. In “Man’s Search for Meaning”, Viktor Frankl talks about how finding meaning in life was the key to surviving his experience in Nazi concentration camps. This was important for me as well.

After developing meaning for my own life, I had to address toxicity and nutrition in order for my body to heal. In becoming a nutritionist, I learned that many degenerative and chronic illnesses have toxicity and nutrient deficiency components to them. I’ve also found that different people heal with different types of diets. Since we are all biologically unique, the diet and supplements that purify and regenerate our cells the best are based on our unique metabolic imbalances and biological conditioning. And so, this has become the focus of my work in helping my clients to recover their health.

Purpose and meaning in life, along with the right diet and nutrition program, from my perspective, are the two keys to recovering from illness of all kinds. Said another way, I believe that both motivation and discernment are critical to success. Motivation to live and experience life fully, and discernment between what is good for our bodies and what is not. We can’t give up. We must use our discernment to make decisions based on what increases our health and vitality.

James Jordan, CNC, JD, is a certified nutritional consultant and a certified metabolic typing advisor who helped heal himself from a six-year battle with chronic illness. In the field for more than a decade, James has supported thousands of people in regaining their health. He has been on staff at the Optimal Wellness Center in Chicago and led his own private health practice in Illinois and Oregon. He is currently enrolled in a doctoral program in natural healing, while completing his naturopathic degree. James has also been a featured nutrition and alternative health care expert on Channel 7 News in Chicago.

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Thursday, June 3, 2010

Celebrate National Cancer Survivors Day

This Sunday, June 6 is National Cancer Survivors Day, our country’s tribute to all of us who have lived through a cancer Jeans Cream Cancer Awareness Ribbons - National Cancer Survivors Daydiagnosis. It is a day to remind us to celebrate ourselves for all we have gone through and all we have become as a result. So, if you or someone you love has survived cancer, do something extra special for yourselves this weekend. We’ll be celebrating our blessings right along with you.

Here are a couple of survivors whose work we’ve discovered recently, and in honor of National Cancer Survivors Day, we’d like to share them with you. Meet Lynette Bisconti and Mack Dryden. Perhaps they’ll be as inspiring to you as they are to us:

Monday, May 17, 2010

What Helped Me Move Forward

GUEST POST BY JACKI DONALDSON

A girl I know was just diagnosed with breast cancer. I say girl because she is young – like under-35 young – and, well, she’s really not supposed to get the disease. It’s apparently not all that common for young women. In fact, just under 7 percent of all breast cancer cases occur in women under 40 years old. Still, it seems like so many are hearing that dreaded string of words: you-have-cancer.

Fortunately, many are surviving, too. And that’s why I’m pretty darn sure my friend will one day look back and marvel at her survival. Just like I do.

My diagnosis came at me like a ton of bricks the day before Thanksgiving in 2004. I was 34 years old, living a happy little life asJacki Donaldson beat cancer a wife and mom of two boys. Joey was almost 4, and Danny was 18 months, and more than anything when I first learned of the invader in my left breast, I feared I would die before my babies grew into men. Now that I’ve graduated from surgery, chemo, radiation, more drug therapy, counseling and a year-and-a-half dance with an anti-depressant, I have almost no worries at all. I guess it’s sort of an evolution – from sheer panic to peaceful calm – that has allowed me to be OK with the fact that I’ve had cancer, and to truly (truly!) believe it’s not coming back. Here’s some of what might have helped me move forward:

Therapy. The counseling and anti-depressant helped me stop weeping every time someone asked, “How are you?” They squashed the anxiety that kept balling up in my stomach, and they braced me until treatment was over and I could wean myself back into real life.

Blogging. It was my husband’s idea, to write down every step of the journey, so others could get updates without my retelling the story over and over and over again. my Breast Cancer blog started as a way to communicate, and it’s morphed into a living document, now five years long. It helps me to write, it brings in others who open up and share their stories, it’s even scored me writing gigs.

Support. I’m lucky, because of my rockin’ husband, my loving kids, my mom who lives in my neighborhood, and my sister who lives around the corner. Plus, I had a whole team of friends who came to my rescue with meals, gifts, letters, emails, a hand-made quilt — you name it, they delivered it. They kept me cushioned for a long time. I also had Chemo Angels – people I didn’t even know who wrote me letters of encouragement through chemotherapy.

Eating. I learned to eat right post-treatment. I’m not saying I’m a perfect eater or anything, but I know what my body needs and what it doesn’t need, and I Jacki Donaldson marathon after cancertry to make it all balance out so I can be as healthy as possible.

Exercising. Research shows that something like five strenuous hours of exercise per week can cut my chances of recurrence significantly, so I’m committed. I run (finished my first half-marathon this year), I walk, I swim, I do whatever I can to ensure my docs keep praising me for my low heart rate (last check = 50).

There’s more. I aim to keep stress low (I recently quit a job that was taking over my life and got a lovely new one), I go to all sorts of doc visits to keep on top of things (just went to my first “survival” appointment), I keep my eye on the prize (my family), and, mostly, I try like mad to cherish every. single. moment. of. every. single. day.

Jacki Donaldson is a wife, mom, freelance writer and editor. When she’s not blogging breast cancer at cancerspot.org, she’s usually spilling secrets about her kids at bravingboys.org

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Fear . . . How Do You Deal?

GUEST POST BY CATHY BUETI

I have been a worrier most of my life. When my first husband was killed in a car accident in 1994 my worrying became worse. It Cathy Bueti for Jeans Radiation Creamwas the most alone I had ever felt. I wasn’t sure how I would ever survive without him. Fast-forward to 2001 when I was diagnosed with Stage 2 breast cancer at 31 years old and lets just say I was “high anxiety” at that point. I became fearful of my own death. As I now enter into my 9th year of survival I still deal with fear but what has changed is I am more aware and motivated to get it under control.

I began to really think about how to handle my fear when I finished up treatment and was told I could just get back to my life. At the time I wasn’t even sure what that life was anymore. What I began to find though was the more time I spent doing the things I loved I would lose all track of time. All of the clutter in my mind would shut off and I was only focused on enjoying what was right in front of me. Creativity was helping me control the fear.

Think about what makes you feel creative and what you are passionate about. For me it is writing, photography, painting, or just taking a long walk listening to some tunes. It is a way for me to empower myself. Fear can steal away your power. Don’t let it!

Do you live with fear? How do you deal with it? What are you passionate about? What makes you feel creative?


Cathy Bueti is a 9 year breast cancer survivor, blogger and the author of Breastless in the City, a memoir in which she shares her experience as a young widow dating through cancer treatment. She is active in the young adult cancer community and has been a panel participant at various cancer conferences as well as a keynote speaker for such events as Sloan-Kettering’s Survivorship Day. She has been featured on CNN, LifetimeTV.com, USA Today, and Women’s World. Cathy lives in Brewster, NY with her husband and their pug. She continues to inspire people on her website and blog at www.cathybueti.com

Friday, February 26, 2010

Crazy Sexy Woman

Need a dose of inspiration? Check out Kris Carr’s story! This video is short, inspiring and makes the journey of life feel beautiful, no matter what comes our way: Watch the story.

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